To live at peace with others, we have to leave them room to love us or reject us, to walk away or come. To live at peace with others, we have to give them space to question, challenge, know us, oppose us to our face. To live at peace with others, we have to set them free to choose to differ from us in all they need to bed. Then, Prince of Peace among us, come, help us to explore new ways of love and living as means to banish war, and give us grace and wisdom, while trying to be friends, to use our inmost anger for your creative ends.